We saw [[seal]]s today! A pod of about 25 of them, some swimming, most of them lounging around. They look very comical when they are just chilling on the beach.
By figuring out how others help the [[task]] of [[Now]], you gain [[energy]] from them.
[[Conflict]] can be used to get everyone on the same [[task]] with [[speed]]. Recall that hearing a [[No]] often reveals more than hearing [[Yes]] or [[Maybe]].
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How do we turn the [[drama]] of [[conflict]] into a happy ending?
[[Attunement]] can arise like this: people [[gather]] in one [[place]], they look at one thing, see that they are all looking at the same thing, and share a feeling together. A [[feedback]][[loop]] happens: more shared [[attention]] leads to more shared [[feeling]], and more shared feeling leads to more shared attention.
Once a strong [[emotion]] is found in a [[social]] interaction, to continue the [[play]], bounce it back and forth until there is a shared [[rhythm]] that can be used to [[grow]][[attunement]].
High [[attunement]] and sense of the [[collective]], a sense of ‘[[we]]‘, makes us want to [[move]] our bodies together.
The good thing about a [[win]] is the [[celebration]] after, which brings more people together.
One mark of high [[emotional]][[energy]] is being in [[rhythm]] with yourself, which is also a mark of [[alignment]]. As [[Confucius]] notes that smaller stars are drawn to a larger star, a rhythm with an aligned [[flow]] draws others to the one with rhythm.